With this statement, I can agree blindly that it’s just a state of mind which isn’t real. Everything has own mythology to dealing the problems to makes the situation stable, mostly it concern how we look on that fact. Fear is a such void concept which has the power to dominant somebodies mind easily and effect on your courage, confident, performances if you aren’t aware. So, if you have the knowlegde on source of fear and you’ve to work on the requirements to tackle it down and which will make you a good tackler. See ! fear has no any definate existance place, it took place only when somebody feels very low or gathered by negetivity toward of a task completion and that afraid try to compromise your brain to not accomplish the work.
For e.g., Suppose In an interview 3 candidates are participating A,B&C , its natural that nobody is equal to one another so, in such situation everyone gets nervous which is so obvious even if you are so confident enough(its just state of mind). Among them ‘ A’ is one who has different kind knowlegde, good communicative skills, high confident…etc so, automatically A’s mind will start to thinking in easy way that it just a interview and doesn’t need to be worry at all and the B & C is in fear and that fear took place beacause they aren’t confident enough and that confident comes from various qualities such high capablity to face the problem, may be high qualitive education, high commmunication skills & knowlegde..etc and somewhere in there mind it’ll be set up that their interview aren’t going to be well (negetivity compromizing their mind) its reality that negetivity will influence on their performance or they might be fail . Thus how fear lead us to be failure. One of the most important thing , Meanwhile without having good quality if you try to be high confident, you might fail.so the bottom line of this-
“Gain your inner quality that quality will increase your confident and that confident will heal your fear”.
Added to it, when we put our efforts behind our weakness or non-interesting goal then its has high chance to be fail, and that failure makes us demotivate always which will creates fear by various negetive thoughts on your mind that thoughts kept you remembering that next you also going to be fail . You might ask why someone will fail ! If the person work hard on that . Let me make it so simple and clear the reason of it suppose you love the chicken most and you are asked to have pork (which you dont like) what’ll happen next, you’ll try to get adjust with pork but i can be sure which has no longer persistance and you’ll fail there. As such way our human life also can’t deal with non-interesting aspact. So, the failures always keep doubting on your crediblity wheither you can do or not but there is no fault of your mind its your fault that you have choosen the wrong one.
“Always keep in your mind that you are directing your mind and there has two side either good or bad way. If you have the power to makes your mind fool by positivity which ensure your success and makes free from fear occupied mind easily”
Till now we just have talked about the problem how fear creates and also there has some way to get rid of it by adopting various tricks these are :
- Positivity : Its a such weapon which has no alternates. Always should be positive towards anything which ensure our persistance durablity. If your thought process always avoid negetivity then fear doesn’t get chance to be emerge.
- Avoid critism: Critism is such a act which always pull you back till the time you aren’t avoid it and it spread fear which covered a large area of your mind and trying to stop you to do.So,if you are clear with your goal then i would love to suggest you as much as possible try to avoid critism which makes your spirits strong and fear weaker.
- High dedication: High dedication always pump up your success posiblity and merge your fear and negetivity. See, all these mentioned point are inter-realated, if somebody trying on you critism which resultant as failure because of fear( which occures due to peoples critism), when you will dedicate towards your goal continuingly though people critise on you which heading you to success not fear.
- By Making your mind fool: You might feel i must gone mad, but no my dear. It is possible to make your mind fool, let me explain how it works. If you doesn’t control your mind otherwise your mind will control you. So, very carefully always try to make your mind fool by ordering your benificial statement. For e.g., At late night , suppose you are in a single room and you started feel unusual which natural( it happens because reducement of different toxic gases meanwhile we consume that which make our mind malefunctioning) thus how our mind makes us awful. So if in that situation you command your mind the truth(the real reason behind of that) meanwhilst you making your mind fool. Its can apply in every aspact.
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— Rubul Rashed